We help guys who don’t have positive reference points with women, guys who struggle with nerves…which is a lot of guys! But you know, a lot of guys come to us from big cities, they come from London, or New York…some do come from the middle of nowhere.
What about ‘supply and demand’: if you’re at university – or in your early twenties, you go out more…so you’re more likely to meet women. But saying that Online Dating is changing everything, and it’s increasing among the young.
And effectively it’s mind management, you have to control those thoughts.
Another thing is, you give her marks out of ten – in your mind – then you look at two ways she could improve herself.
That’s when you notice their eye contact, body language, general behaviour…No, no. So I don’t care about looks, looks are immaterial – I teach game.
Author of best selling book ’The Noble Art Of Attracting Women’ Kezia offers a wide range of workshops and online products that help men achieve success with women in all areas. I was approached by a guy who told me he was a ‘Pick up Artist’…and I just thought, what is that? He explained to me that he taught guys how to pick up women, and my first reaction was: “Listen, you can’t teach attraction…it’s not a choice. His answer was, in a kind of ‘oh ye of little faith’ way: “I’m running a bootcamp this weekend, where I’m teaching a group of guys how to pick up women – going from zero to hero.” So he told me to come along, and said that if I wanted to give some feedback to the guys I could.
There were parts that I thought could be done better, parts I thought were a bit misogynistic, a bit archaic.
They were saying things that I didn’t agree with like: “An indicator of interest are when her feet are pointing at you.” Or if she folds her arms, she’s closed…other things like that.
So I gave my feedback, got my coat – expecting to see pitchforks.
But actually they were lining up, wanting to book a one-on-one session.
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I’m good at telling them, ‘look this is what you do when you’re on the date’. I know a lot of guys who get on very well with women, they’re naturals.